3 Things I Wish I Knew Before Becoming a Mother

“I can imagine no heroism greater than motherhood.” - Lance Conrad

There is really no way to prepare for becoming a mother, it’s one of the most rewarding and challenging vocations you will ever experience. Believe me I tried. I read countless books, numerous blogs, and quizzed countless friends. I’m a details person and over-prepare for most everything, but there’s truly nothing like motherhood. The journey is filled with highs and lows, but it's undoubtedly a life-changing experience; so here are a few things I wish I’d known before I became a mom.

The unconditional love

The love you have for your child is unparalleled, and it's the most beautiful thing you'll ever experience. I deeply love my husband, but the love I have for my children is like no other, it's an unexplainable feeling that unravels you in ways you never imagined, a love that grows with each passing day. There may be times I do not like or agree with my children’s choices but that love never waivers, not even for a second.

The refinement

I would’ve never dreamed in a million years that becoming a mother would require such heart and soul refinement. The journey of motherhood isn't just about raising your child; it's a journey of self-discovery that’ll change you in ways you never imagined. You'll learn to be more patient, empathetic, and understanding. You'll become more resilient, determined, and driven, and most importantly, you'll become a better version of yourself. You are refining them and they are refining you.

The time warp

Growing up and still to this day, when my mom tells a story she almost always mentions how she can’t believe it happened 10, 20, 50 years ago. “It feels like only yesterday and that time has just flown by.” Typically, I would just mentally roll my eyes. But now I get it. Something changes when you have children. I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase, the days are long and the years are short. Truly, this describes motherhood perfectly. I look at my children and wonder how they are so big and grown and I secretly wish for time to freeze. The moments are precious with your children, so don’t wish away the season you’re in, try to find gratitude in it.

Motherhood is a beautiful journey filled with unconditional love, self-discovery, and memories that will last a lifetime. Know that every season is different, and if you are wise you will undoubtably learn something new about yourself and your family. Cherish the days that are sweet and learn from the days that are hard…because your time with them passes all too quickly.

Mama, are you thriving or struggling in your season of motherhood? I specifically became a Life Coach to serve mothers, so if you are curious about how I can help you reach out. I offer Free 20 minute consults to all new clients. I would love nothing more than to make time to support and encourage you.

Always rooting for you!

Melina

Melina is the founder of Melina Kane Coaching, a Professional Home Organizing Business in Texas (servicing Austin, Cedar Park, Round Rock, Georgetown, and Pflugerville). She loves creating effortless systems that support your everyday life. She’s an Ennegram 2 and recovering perfectionist whose never met a stranger, so come say Hi! on Instagram @cultivateyourlegacy.​

5 Things I Love About Life Coaching

Today, I want to share with you the five things that bring me immense joy and make life coaching such a rewarding experience. Being a Life Coach is not just a job for me; it's a journey of warmth, connection, and transformation. So, warm up your coffee, get comfortable, and let's explore the aspects of life coaching that I absolutely adore.

Witnessing Growth and Transformation

One of the most rewarding aspects of life coaching is witnessing the incredible growth and transformation in my clients. It makes my heart happy to see my clients step into their true potential, break through their limitations, and achieve their goals. The beauty of witnessing personal growth is truly magical, and it continually inspires me to create a nurturing environment where clients can thrive.

Cultivating Authentic Connections

Life coaching is a space that allows for genuine connections to flourish. I cherish the opportunity to establish a safe and trusting relationship with my clients. Through active listening and empathy, I create an environment where my clients feel seen and heard. Building these connections allows me to support them in exploring their deepest desires, values, and passions, so we can ultimately align their lives with their hopes and dreams.

Empowering Individuals to Take Action

This process is all about empowering individuals to take ownership of their lives and make positive changes. It’s a beautiful thing to see my clients step out of their comfort zones, set meaningful objectives, and create action plans. Witnessing their determination and courage as they take steps towards their dreams is truly humbling and I am honored to be a part of their journey.

Uncovering Hidden Potential

One of my favorite aspects of life coaching is helping clients tap into their hidden potential. Often, we underestimate our abilities and limit ourselves based on past experiences or self-doubt. As a Life Coach, I have the privilege of helping individuals recognize and leverage their unique strengths, talents, and passions. It's truly rewarding to witness clients embrace their full potential and discover new possibilities they never thought were within their reach.

Inspiring Lasting Change

Life coaching is not just about quick fixes; it's about creating lasting change that extends far beyond our coaching sessions. Seeing my clients adopt new perspectives, beliefs, and habits that positively impact their lives is incredibly inspiring. The greatest joy comes from witnessing their continued growth and fulfillment long after our coaching relationship ends. It's a testament to the power of coaching and the resilience of the human spirit.

Life coaching is a journey of empowerment, growth, and transformation. The ability to witness clients embrace their potential, take charge of their lives, and create lasting change is an extraordinary privilege. The authentic connections, the joy of seeing clients thrive, and the opportunity to inspire and support individuals in their unique journeys are just a few of the many reasons why I absolutely love being a Life Coach. It's a profession that allows me to make a positive difference in the lives of others while continually growing and learning alongside them.

If you’d like to learn more, I offer Free 20 minute Discovery Calls to all new clients. Book a call today! I would love to see how I can support you in cultivating a life you love.

Always rooting for you!

Melina

Melina is the founder of Melina Kane Coaching, a Professional Home Organizing Business in Texas (servicing Austin, Cedar Park, Round Rock, Georgetown, and Pflugerville). She loves creating effortless systems that support your everyday life. She’s an Ennegram 2 and recovering perfectionist whose never met a stranger, so come say Hi! on Instagram @cultivateyourlegacy.​